[13:33] * DA changes topic to '18 DAYS TIL CF HAS A-OH-C ||Christmas Game of AoC - 18th December || Be There || Or || Be Square - 7pm GMT / IN: DA, Lanky, CF, Changer, ?, ?, ?'
If you can get on IRC, join #AoC and there's usually someone online in the evenings who'll be able to talk you through it.
As a pointer, we tend to use either gameranger or tunngle to get games working online; both can be downloaded for free from their own sites (just google them).